Love...
One of the most complex
things to have ever existed on earth... or am I alone on this one?
What is love? I mean ,
who on this earth, can really define what love is?
Lets all face it, every
relationship always starts out strong, it always starts out positive and great.
But, in the long run, it starts to slowly dwindle…
I’m not saying that
relationships are perfect because I know that they aren’t. I’m just simply
saying, why do people make things more complicated then what it needs to be?
I find it sad when there’s
only one person who’s willing to give it their all in a relationship and the
other person doesn’t show any signs of acknowledgement, or willingness to
reciprocate as well. Why are we willing to put ourselves in that situation?
If there was someone who
hurt us so much to a breaking point, wouldn’t that drive us to leave? Wouldn’t
that make us want to take ourselves out of that situation so that we won’t feel
so hurt anymore? I know I can’t really speak for anyone but myself when it
comes to this topic. Whenever I’m in a relationship, this particular question
always pops into my mind. Wouldn’t it be better for me to take myself out of
that situation? Of course it would; but, at the same time, it’s easier said
than done. Because of all of the memories that have been created and because of
all of the times you’ve invested for that relationship, it takes a toll on your
heart. It makes it harder to leave that person and it makes it harder to forget
them as well.
Not everyone is the
same. It may be easier for some people than others. But, from what I have seen
and experienced, Love isn’t an easy thing. People are always getting hurt and relationships
aren’t always fair. But, of course, if you really love that person, you’re
willing to stick it out and fight through whatever to be with them.
It’s just always a
tragic whenever relationships don’t work out because of lies, secrets, or
miscommunication. I personally think that if the two people really liked each
other and they were really willing to try, things would work out for the both
of them. It’s all just really up to the two significant others. No one can tell
them what to do but themselves and no one can stop them from doing anything but
themselves. Sure, people can suggest things and give you their opinions but it’s
really up to you to let what others say have an effect on your relationship.
I’ve seen multiple relationships
fall apart because there was some sort of “intruding” and someone let others “invade”
their relationship and/or privacy. It hurts me to know that two people who were
so in “love” could let something so little tear them apart. But, not everyone’s
perfect and not every relationship is going to work. I just wish that people
would be a bit more understanding or have more faith when it comes to their
relationship.
I mean what connects two
people besides, faith, trust, and honesty? Isn’t that what a relationship is
built from? And if the relationship does consist of those three, wouldn’t that
make the relationship strong? How can it be so easy to tear two people apart? That’s
the question that baffles me…
